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When people talk about “unconscious competence,” they mean the point where a skill becomes automatic — efficient, reliable, and done without conscious thought. But reaching that stage takes years of deliberate, focused practice. The process usually runs through four stages: 1. Unconscious incompetence – you don’t know what you don’t know. 2. Conscious incompetence – you realise you can’t do it properly yet. 3. Conscious competence – you can perform the skill, but only if you give it full focus.